Devastated by Father’s Suicide, Sisters Work to Shed Light on Mental Illness
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10 July, 2017INTO THE LIGHT strives to rid the stigma around all mental health issues facing teens and young adults.
Imagine a society where people struggling with mental illness, regardless of their circumstances, felt comfortable reaching out for help; where in their worst moments, they were met with understanding, compassion and solutions; where as a result they experienced a greater level of safety, dignity and healing.
“Your illness is not your identity. Your chemistry is not your character.” Pastor Rick Warren, author of A Purpose Driven Life.
Our Dad was a loving husband, father, son, brother and friend. He was a compassionate highly functioning individual with unlimited potential, who shared his gifts with everyone. So, when he took his own life in spring 2016 at age 51, it was difficult to accept that he may have succumbed to a severe condition. Perhaps for our sake he masked and didn’t discuss it. However, many aspects of his life may have been profoundly impacted; the way he thought, perceived, coped and viewed the future could have been distorted by his suffering and anguish. Over time we have realized that a stigma comes from a lack of understanding about what drives suicidal thinking or other behavior sometimes shown by individuals tormented by mental illness.
We were blessed with an outpouring of support during this time when we experienced tremendous grief. That gave us a foundation to think through how we might honor our dad’s legacy while also playing a significant role in elevating the discussion, educating and helping victims, survivors and the public gain access to treatment options and have opportunities to move forward and engage in prevention strategies. In fall, 2017, the first INTO THE LIGHT event for mental health awareness included several speakers and a 5k walk/run. The team effort engaged hundreds of volunteers, enrolled 1300 participants/walkers/runners, and generated more than $85,000.00 to help our partner, the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention provide research, education, screening, advocacy and support programs locally and nationally. We have unending gratitude for the friends, neighbors and new relationships who have truly lifted our spirits during this journey.
Research and statistics by Mental Health America and National Alliance on Mental Illness indicate the following.
We can play a role in managing the trajectory between mental illness and suicidal thoughts.
Reducing the Stigma can yield benefits to individuals and society.
There are three primary components.
l. Elevate Awareness, Engage, Build Trust
Through peer – led presentations and large scale community events, we engage and involve a large demographic; students, parents, mental health professionals, and others from the private, public, educational and health care sectors that help foster an environment for positive mental health conversations.
Getting involved leads to better conversations. Better conversations lead to better content that leads to better connections. Better connections lead to trust. Trust can be a potent and sustainable way to help those that have a mental illness desire to improve coping skills, help parents, friends and caregivers listen and respond effectively, and reduce the isolation a person struggling with a disease or a survivor may feel.
Matthew Wintersteen, Ph.D., Associate Professor, Director of Research, Thomas Jefferson University, Department of Psychiatry & Human Behavior advocates parents upon observing unusual behavior, ask a child if he/she is okay; use reflective listening and feedback to ensure the child trusts that the parent has a full understanding of how the child is feeling. Upon building the trust, parents can then assure the child that together we can start a path forward, there are treatments that are effective, and access can be provided.
Yeates Conwell, M.D., Director, Geriatric Psychiatry Program, Co-Director, Center for Study and Prevention of Suicide, University of Rochester Medical Center reminds us it is important if we are concerned about somebody to show we care. “The power of asking a question in a way that communicates I understand there is something wrong and I am interested in helping can in and of itself be a lifesaving intervention.”
By providing forums where conversations, connections and trust are nurtured, we may change paradigms and move more hearts, hands, advocates, influence and resources to the efforts that address, intervene and provide solutions to those challenged by mental health issues. As we do this we will fulfill our mission and vision.
“The INTO THE LIGHT (ITL) first 5K run/walk was incredible and I cannot wait for next year’s event. ITL has inspired me to become a more sympathetic and spiritual person. It helped me realize that everyone fights their own battle and we are not alone. INTO THE LIGHT has taught me to be a kinder person and not speak negatively about others. It has impacted thousands of people and it is such a great feeling to know that this is just the start.” Mike Lino
II. Collaboration
We will collaborate with other organizations. In doing so we will increase our efficiency and effectiveness, accelerate learning and distribute skills and knowledge, strengthen capacity and add depth to community impact. Our collaboration will include:
III. Stewardship
We recognize that sustainable impact is made through ongoing involvement. To the extent possible and allowable by our stakeholders, to maximize potential, we will provide premium stewardship for those who invest time, financial and other resources in INTO THE LIGHT activities. This will include:
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